The Sacred in Every Encounter: Seeing the Divine in Each Other
The Sacred Space Between Us: Finding the Divine in One Another
There’s something sacred about the moment you sit across from another human being and realize—you’re standing on holy ground.
Not in a church.
Not on a mountaintop.
Not in solitude with your own thoughts.
But right here, in the presence of another person.
I didn’t always see it this way.
For much of my life, I thought of spirituality as something deeply personal—something found in prayer, meditation, silence. And while those things hold their own sacredness, I’ve come to believe that some of the most profound spiritual experiences don’t happen when we’re alone.
They happen in connection.
Because to enter the presence of another human being is to enter into the presence of the divine in a way that’s impossible to experience alone.
If we pay attention, we’ll see that every interaction holds a chance to meet something sacred.
The Holiness of Being Seen
There’s a moment I’ll never forget.
I was sitting with a patient in hospice, someone whose body was failing but whose mind was still sharp. They had long since stopped fighting their illness—they weren’t afraid of dying. But they were afraid of one thing:
Dying without being seen.
“I just don’t want to disappear,” they told me.
Not because they wanted to be remembered by the world.
But because they wanted to know—before they left this earth—that their life mattered. That their stories, their pain, their joys weren’t just lost in the void. That they weren’t just lost in the void.
I sat with them for a long time that day, just listening.
Not fixing.
Not offering advice.
Not trying to make their pain feel smaller.
Just being there.
And I could feel it—how presence itself, without any words, created a kind of holiness.
Because sometimes, the most sacred thing you can do for another person is to truly see them.
Awe and Gratitude in Every Interaction
How often do we rush through our interactions without really being present?
We move from one conversation to the next, distracted, half-listening, treating people as obstacles or tasks rather than as sacred encounters.
But what if we came into every interaction with a sense of awe and gratitude?
Awe at the complexity of the human being in front of us—their history, their struggles, their unique way of seeing the world.
Gratitude for the opportunity to share even a small moment of life with them, knowing that no two interactions will ever be exactly the same.
Because every person we meet is a once-in-history event.
There has never been, and will never be, another them.
And that alone should stop us in our tracks.
Where the Divine Shows Up in the Everyday
If we want to experience the presence of something greater than ourselves, we don’t have to go searching.
It’s already here.
It’s in the stranger who smiles at you on a hard day.
It’s in the friend who listens without judgment.
It’s in the barista who remembers your order and asks how you’re doing.
It’s in the unremarkable, ordinary, fleeting moments that we so often overlook.
Holiness isn’t reserved for cathedrals or mountaintops.
It’s in the grocery store.
It’s in the waiting room.
It’s in the quiet “me too” exchanged between two people who suddenly feel less alone.
The divine is everywhere—especially in the space between us.
How to Show Up for Others (and Ourselves) in a More Sacred Way
If we want to live like our interactions are sacred, we have to shift the way we approach them.
Here’s what I’ve been learning:
1. Be Fully Present—Don’t Just Show Up Physically
We can be physically with someone and still be miles away in our minds.
We can nod and smile while thinking about our to-do list.
We can ask, “How are you?” without really wanting to know the answer.
But presence—the kind that feels sacred—requires more than that.
Put the phone down.
Make eye contact.
Listen like what they’re saying matters (because it does).
Because presence isn’t about fixing or advising—it’s about letting people know, I see you. I’m here.
And sometimes, that’s all someone really needs.
2. See People for More Than Their Roles
It’s easy to flatten people into roles rather than seeing them as whole human beings.
We see the waiter, not the artist trying to make ends meet.
We see the coworker, not the person carrying personal struggles we know nothing about.
We see the family member, not the individual who has changed, grown, and evolved beyond who they used to be.
But every single person we interact with has a full life behind their eyes.
If we saw people in their full humanity—not just in relation to how they serve us—how much more awe and gratitude would we bring to our daily lives?
3. Treat Every Interaction as a One-Time Event
I once heard someone say that every conversation is the last conversation of its kind.
Even if you see someone every day, the version of you and the version of them that exist in this moment will never exist again.
This is it.
This is the only time this conversation will ever unfold in exactly this way.
How much more careful, more present, more loving would we be if we treated our interactions like once-in-history events?
Because they are.
4. Let Love Be the Goal—Not Efficiency
We live in a culture that values efficiency.
We move through conversations quickly, we multitask, we respond to messages with as few words as possible.
But when it comes to human connection, efficiency is not the goal—love is.
Love lingers when there’s more to be said.
Love remembers the small details.
Love doesn’t rush people through their emotions just because we’re uncomfortable.
When we approach interactions with love instead of efficiency, everything changes.
Final Thoughts: Meeting the Divine in Each Other
If I’ve learned anything from my years of sitting with people in their most vulnerable moments, it’s this:
The divine isn’t just something we seek.
It’s something we become aware of—especially in the presence of each other.
So what if we started treating our interactions like sacred encounters?
What if we entered the presence of others with the same reverence we bring to prayer, meditation, or worship?
What if, instead of rushing through our days, we started to notice the holiness in the faces of those around us?
Because every person we meet is carrying something unseen.
Every person we meet has a life far more complex than we can imagine.
Every person we meet is a reflection of something greater than themselves.
To see each other fully is to see the sacred.
And that might just be the most spiritual practice of all.
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